jf:tjdf k/d]Zj/n] g} kl/jf/ ;DaGwL wf/0ff Nofpg’ eof] . To;}n] kl/jf/x¿ s;/L lgdf{0f ePsf] x’g’ k5{ eg]/ pxfFn] xfdLnfO{ eGg’ x’G5 / kl/jf/x¿nfO{ gi6 kfl/lbg] kmGbfx¿af6 xf]lzof/ x’gsf] nflu r]tfjgL;d]t lbg ;Sg’ x’G5 eGg] s’/fsf] sf/0f o;n] v8f u/L lbG5 . jf:tjdf, kl/jf/sf] agf}6 / kl/jf/sf x/]s ;b:on] ug'{ kg]{ e”ldsf ;DaGwL k|e’n] xfdLnfO{ pxfFsf] jrgdf w]/} l;4fGtx¿ lbg’ ePsf] 5 . ha oL afOanLo lgb]{zgx¿ kfng ul/G5g , ta kl/jf/x¿nfO{ k/d]Zj/n] cfglGbt ePsf] xf]; eg]/ rfxgf ug'{ eP/ ltgLx¿nfO{ lbg] ;a} cflzifx¿sf] cg’ej ltgLx¿n] ug]{5g . ha ltgLx¿ tL lgb]{zg jf cf1fx¿ pn+3g ug]{ x’G5g , ta a/afbL / 6fpsf] b’vfO{ rFflx To; s’/fsf] kl/0ffd x’G5 .
The Role of Husband and Wife
klt / kTgLsf] e”ldsf
k/d]Zj/n] v|Li6og kl/jf/sf] Pp6f lglZrt agf}6 lbg’ ePsf] 5 . o; agf}6n] kl/jfl/s hLjgsf] nflu :yfloTj lbg] ePsf]n], z}tfgn] k/d]Zj/n] rfxgf ug'{ ePsf] kl/jf/sf] cfsf/nfO{ laufg{sf] nflu s7f]/ kl/>d ub{5 .
klxnf] s’/f, k/d]Zj/n] kl/jf/sf] lz/ x’gsf] lglDt kltnfO{ lgo’Qm ug'{ ePsf] 5 . o; s’/fn] kltnfO{ cfˆgL kTgL / afn–aRrfx¿k|lt :jfyL{ eP/ zf;g ug]{ clwsf/ k/d]Zj/n] lbg’ ePsf] 5}g eGg] s’/fnfO{ :ki6 ub{5 . k/d]Zj/n] kTgLnfO{ kl/jf/sf] lz/ eP/ cfˆgf] kl/jf/nfO{ k|]d ug{, ;’/Iff k|bfg ug{, / k|aGw u/L lbgsf] nflu af]nfpg’ ePsf] xf] . k/d]Zj/n] kTgLx¿nfO{ klg ltgLx¿sf kltx¿sf] cu’jfkgk|lt ;dlk{t ePsf x’g eGg] rfxg’ x’G5 . of] s’/f wd{zf:qaf6 :ki6 x’G5 M ækTgL xf], k|e’sf] cwLgdf /x]h:t} cf–cfˆgf kltsf] cwLgdf a; . lsgls klt kTgLsf] lz/ xf], h;/L v|Li6 d08nLsf] lz/ x’g’ x’G5, h’g d08nL v|Li6sf] cwLgdf 5, To;/L g} kTgLx¿ klg x/]s s’/fdf kltx¿sf cwLgdf /x’gÆ -Plkm;L %M@@–@$_ .
klt cfˆgL kTgLsf] cflTds lz/ xf]Og— k|e’ o]z” g} Tof] JolSt x’g’ x’G5 h;n] Tof] e”ldsfnfO{ k”/f u/L lbg’ x’G5 . k|e’ o]z” d08nLsf] cflTds lz/ x’g’ x’G5, / v|Lli6og kTgL d08nLsf] ;b:o ePem}F cf–cfˆgf kltsf] ;b:o x’g . h] eP tfklg, kl/jf/df, v|Lli6og klt cfˆgL kTgL / afn–aRrfx¿sf lz/ x’g / ltgLx¿n] pgnfO{ k/d]Zj/n] lbg’ ePsf] clVtof/d’lg ;dlk{t x’g’ k5{ .
s’g :t/df kTgLn] cfˆgf] kltsf] cwLgdf cfk”mnfO{ ;dlk{t ug]{ < kfjnn] eg]em}F ltgn] x/]s s’/fdf cfˆgf kltsf] cwLgdf cfk”mnfO{ ;dlk{t ug'{ k5{ . To; lgodsf] nflu x’g] Pp6} dfq ckjfb rFflx olb ltgsf kltn] ltgn] k/d]Zj/sf] jrg pn+3g u/]sf] ck]Iff u5{g eg] jf ltgn] ljj]snfO{ pn+3g ug]{ s’g} sfd u5{g eg] dfq x’G5 . jf:tjdf, s’g} klg v|Lli6og kltn] cfˆgL kTgLn] k/d]Zj/sf] jrg pn+3g u/]sf] jf ltgn] ljj]snfO{ pn+3g u/]sf] ck]Iff ub}{g . klt pgsL kTgLsf] k|e’ xf]Og— ltgsf] hLjgdf k|e’ o]z”sf] nflu dfq} Tof] :yfg x’G5 . olb ltgn] s;sf] cf1f kfng ug]{ eg]/ 5fGg’ k¥of] eg] ltgn] k|e’ o]z”nfO{ g} 5fGbl5g .
kltx¿n] ;Fw} of] s’/fnfO{ ;+emg’ kb{5, ls k/d]Zj/ ;Fw} ækltx¿sf] tkm{dfÆ dfq} x’g’ k5{ eGg] xf]Og . k/d]Zj/n] Psrf]l6 ca|fxfdnfO{ ltgsL kTgLn] h] elG5g ToxL ug'{ eg]/ eGg’ ePsf] lyof] -x]g'{xf]; pTklQ @!M!)–!@_ . clau]nn] cfˆgf] d”v{ klt gfafnsf] cf1f pn+3g ul/g / oxfF laklQ cfO{ nfUof] eg]/ klg wd{zf:qn] eg]sf] 5 -! zfd’Pn @%M@–#*_ .
God’s Word to Husbands
kltx¿sf] nflu k/d]Zj/sf] jrg
æklt xf], cfˆgf kTgLx¿nfO{ k|]d u/, h;/L v|Li6n] klg d08nLnfO{ k|]d ug'{ eof], / To;sf] lglDt cfk”mnfO{ ck{0f ug'{ eof]=== To;/L g} kltx¿n] klg cf–cfˆgf kTgLnfO{ cfˆg} z/L/nfO{ em}F k|]d ug'{ k5{ . cfˆgL kTgLnfO{ k|]d ug]{n] cfk}mnfO{ k|]d u5{, lsgls s’g} dflg;n] slxn] cfˆgf] z/L/nfO{ 3[0ff ub}{g, t/ To;sf] sb/ u/]/ kfngkf]if0f ub{5, h;/L v|Li6n] klg cfˆgf] d08nLsf] lglDt ug'{ x’G5 . lsgeg] xfdL pxfFsf z/L/sf] c+u xf}F=== h] eP klg, ltdLx¿ x/]sn] cfˆgL kTgLnfO{ cfkm}nfO{ em}F k|]d u/, / kTgLn] klg cfˆgf kltsf] cfb/ u/f];Æ -Plkm;L %M@%, @*–#), ##_ .
v|Li6n] d08nLnfO{ k|]d ug'{ ePem}F kltx¿nfO{ klg cf–cfˆgf kTgLx¿nfO{ k|]d ug{sf] nflu cf1f ul/Psf] 5 . Tof] lhDd]jf/L ;fdfGo lhDd]jf/L xf]Og . h’g;’s} kTgLn] cfk”mnfO{ k|]d ug]{ kltk|lt ltgL cfk”mnfO{ k|]d ug]{ k|e’ o]z”k|lt ;dlk{t ePem}F v’zL;fy ;dlk{t x’lG5g— h;n] alnbfgL k|]d;fy cfk}mnfO{ lbO{ xfNg’ eof] . h;/L v|Li6n] cfˆg} z/L/, d08nLnfO{ k|]d ug'{ x’G5, To;/L g} kltn] klg Tof] :qLnfO{ k|]d ug'{ kb{5, hf];Fu pgL æPp6L z/L/Æ ePsf 5g – Plkm;L %M#!_ . olb v|Lli6og kltn] cfk”mn] ug'{ kg]{ k|]d cfˆgL kTgLnfO{ ub{5g eg], pgn] ltgsf] lglDt h’6fpg], ltgsf] jf:tf ug]{, ltgnfO{ cfb/ ug]{, ;xfotf ug]{, pT;fx lbg] / ltgL;Fu} cfˆgf] ;do latfpg] sfd klg ug]{5g . olb pgL cfˆgL kTgLnfO{ k|]d ug'{ kg]{ lhDd]jf/Ldf c;kmn x’G5g eg], klt cfˆgf] k|fy{gfsf] hjfa /f]lsg] s’/fsf] vt/fdf kb{5g M
æklt xf], To;}u/L cfˆgf kTgL;Fu ljrf/zLn eP/ a;, / :qLnfO{ canf 7fgL cfb/ ug]{ u/, lsgls ltdLx¿ hLjgsf cg’u|xsf] ;fem] xsbf/ xf}, o; x]t’n] ls ltdLx¿sf k|fy{gfdf afwf gk/f];Æ -! kq’; #M&_ .
jf:tjdf, ;Dk”0f{ tj/n] em}–emu8f / c;xdltsf] cdfGo kl/l:yltdf slxn] klg ljjfx ;kmn ePsf] kfO{Gb}g . xfd|f] hLjgdf ;dk{0ftf / kljq cfTdfsf kmnx¿sf ljsf;åf/f g} klt / kTgLx¿n] cfˆgf] v|Lli6og ljjfxsf] ;bf a[l4 e}/xg] cflzifsf] cg’ej ug{ / Pstfdf /xgsf] nflu l;Sg ;S5g . ;a} ljjfxx¿df p7g] u/]sf] ckl/xfo{ ;d:ofx¿åf/f x/]s j}jflxs hLjg ;fyLn] v|Li6 h:t} x’g dxfg kl/kSstftkm{ a9gnfO{ l;Sg ;S5g .
klt / kTgLx¿sf] ;DaGwdf clws cWoog ug'{ k/]df, pTklQ @M!%–@%, lxtf]kb]z !(M!#, @!M(, !(, @&M!%–!^, #!M!)–#!, ! sf]l/GyL !!M#, !#M!–*, sn:;L #M!*–!(, ! ltdf]yL #M$–%, ltt; @M#–%, ! kq’; #M!–& x]g'{xf]; .
Sex in Marriage
ljjfxdf of}g
k/d]Zj/n] g} of}gsf] cfljisf/ ug'{ ePsf] xf], / pxfFn] o;nfO{ ef]u–lanf;sf] ;fy} ;Gtfg pTkfbgsf] nflu ;[li6 u/L lbg’ ePsf] xf] eGg] s’/f :ki6 x’G5 . afOann] :ki6 ¿kdf eGb5, ls hLjgel/sf] j}jflxs s/f/df cfk”mnfO{ ;Fu;Fu} hf]8g]x¿åf/f dfq} of}g ;DaGw cfgGbbfos aGb5 .
j}jflxs z’qdf afFlwPsf] s’/fb]lv aflx/ /x]/ of}g ;DaGw /fVg] s’/fnfO{ lst Jolerf/ jf k/:qLudg eg]/ auL{s/0f ul/Psf] 5 . o:tf sfdx¿ ug]{x¿ k/d]Zj/sf] /fHodf k|j]z ug]{ 5}gg egL k|]l/t kfjnn] eg]sf 5g -x]g'{xf]; ! sf]l/GyL ^M(–!!_ . Pp6f v|Lli6og k/:qLudg jf Jolerf/sf] kl/Iffdf kg{ ;Snf / To;n] Tof] sfd ul/xfNg ;Snf, tfklg, p;n] cfˆgf] cfTdfdf 7″nf] bf]ifL ePsf] dx;’; ug]{5 / To; s’/fn] p;nfO{ kZrftfkdf 8f]¥ofpFg]5 . clg p;n] kZrftfk ug}{ kg]{ x’G5 .
kfjnn] klt / kTgLsf] aLrdf x’g] of}g ;DaGwL lhDd]jf/Lx¿sf] af/]df s]xL lalzi6 lgb]{zgx¿ klg lbPsf 5g M æt/ Jolerf/ ;DaGwL k/LIff cg]s ePsf x’gfn] x/]s dflg;sL cfˆg} kTgL xf]; , / x/]s :qLsf] klg cfˆg} klt xf]; . kltn] cfˆgL kTgLnfO{ p;sf] j}jflxs xs lbcf]; / o;/L g} kTgLn] klg cfˆgf kltnfO{ . kTgLn] cfˆgf] z/L/dfly clwsf/ /flVbg, t/ p;sf] kltn] /fV5 . o;/L g} kltn] klg cfˆgf] z/L/dfly clwsf/ /fVb}g, t/ p;sL kTgLn] /fV5] . klt kTgLn] cfˆgf] kf/:kl/s ;+;u{b]lv Ps–csf{nfO{ OGsf/ gu/ . OGsf/ u¥of} eg] klg, cfk;df ;Nnfx u/]/ s]xL ;dosf] lglDt dfq, tfls cfTd;+odsf] cefjsf] sf/0fn] z}tfgn] ltdLx¿nfO{ k/LIffdf gkf/f]; -! sf]l/GyL ^@
olb v|Lli6og ljjflxt hf]8Lx¿ of}g ;DaGwdf Ps–csf{df ;Gt’i6 eP/ cfglGbt x’G5g eg], klt / kTgLx¿n] of] s’/f a’‰g’ kb{5, ls k”?ifx¿ / :qLx¿sf] of}g :jefjsf] aLrdf Psbd w]/} leGgtf 5 . t’ngf u/]/ x]bf{ k”?ifx¿df of}g :jefj w]/} zf/Ll/s k|sf/sf] x’G5g , hals :qLx¿sf] of}g :jefj rFflx ltgLx¿sf] efjgfx¿;Fu hf]l8Psf] x’G5 . k”?ifx¿ b]Vb}v]l/df of}gsf] rfxgf ul/xfNg pT;flxt x’G5g -x]g'{xf]; dQL %M@*_ eg] :qLx¿ rFflx ;DaGw / :kz{åf/f of}g ;Dks{df pT;flxt aGb5g -x]g'{xf]; ! sf]l/GyL &M!_ . k”?ifx¿ :qLx¿af6 cfˆgf] cfFvfsf] x]/fOn] cfslif{t eO{ xfN5g eg] :qLx¿ rFflx z/L/sf] cfsif{0fn]eGbf klg c? w]/} sf/0fx¿n] ubf{ k”?ifx¿k|lt of}g ;Dks{df cfslif{t x’G5g . o;/L a’l4dfg kTgLx¿n] cfˆgf kltx¿nfO{ l/emfpgsf] nflu ;Sbf] k|of; ub{5g . clg a’l4dfg kltx¿n] rFflx cfˆgf kTgLx¿nfO{ ;fFem kg]{ lalQs} ltgLx¿ ePsf] 7fpFdf cfOxfn’g eg]/ rfxg’eGbf klg a9L u/]/ ltgLx¿nfO{ cfˆgf] c+ufnf]df xfNg] / ;f]rgLo bof ug]{ h:tf s’/fx¿ u/]/ x/ ;do ltgLx¿nfO{ cfˆgf] dfof k|s6 ug]{ sfo{x¿ ub{5g .
k”?ifsf] of}g t[i0ff p;sf] z/L/df ePsf] z’j|mf0f’sf] a[l4 x’Fbf a9b5 eg] :qLx¿sf] of}g t[i0ff rFflx a[l4 x’g] jf 36g] s’/f ltgdf ePsf] /h:jfnfsf] k|s[ofdf e/ kb{5 . of}g ;DaGwL s’/fdf pT;flxt x’g / yf]/} ;]s]08 jf ldg]6d} of}gsf] k/fsfi7fdf k’lu xfNg] cg’ejsf] nflu k”?ifsf] Ifdtf x’G5 eg] :qLx¿nfO{ rFflx w]/} ;do nfUb5 . s]xL ;]s]08d} ;fdfGo ¿kdf zf/Ll/s tj/n] k”?ifx¿ jf:tljs ¿kdf tof/ eO{ xfn] tfklg, cfwf306f;Dd hltg} :qLx¿ zf/Ll/s tj/n] t}of/ ePsf x’Fb}gg . To;}n] a’l4dfg kltx¿ cfˆgf kTgLx¿nfO{ of}gsf] lglDt jf:tf ug]{, ltgLx¿nfO{ ;’d;’Dofpg], DjfO{vfg] / To; If]qsf] nflu zf/Ll/s ¿kdf ltgLx¿ of}g ;Dks{sf] nflu tof/ gxf]pGh]n;Dd ;do lnFb5g . olb p;nfO{ To:tf z/L/sf c+ux¿ sxfF–sxfF 5g eg]/ yfxf 5}g eg], pgn] cfˆgL kTgLnfO{ ;f]Wg’ k5{ . o;sf] cltl/St, pgL of}gsf] k/fsfi7fdf k’Ugsf] nflu pgsf] Ifdtf 5 eg]/ pgn] hfg]sf] eP tfklg pgsL kTgLsf] Ifdtf Tof]eGbf klg a9L 5 eg]/ pgn] hfg]sf] x’g’ kb{5 . pgn] cfˆgL kTgLsf] rfxgf k”/f ePsf] b]Vg’ kb{5 .
v|Lli6og klt / kTgLx¿n] ltgLx¿sf] vfFrf]sf] af/]df OdfGbf/;fy Psn] csf{;Fu 5nkmn u/]/ lakl/t lnËLx¿ slt km/s x’G5g eg]/ hfGg’ Psbd dxTjk”0f{ x’G5 . klt / kTgLx¿sf] aLrsf] of}g ;DaGwx¿sf] lglDt dlxgf}F / jiff}{;Dd ul/Psf] ;~rf/, cg’;Gwfg / cEof;åf/f ;Fw} a[l4 eO/xg] cflzifsf] kl/0ffd NofO{ lbg ;S5 .
Children of a Christian Family
v|Lli6og kl/jf/sf 5f]/f—5f]/Lx¿
5f]/f–5f]/Lx¿nfO{ ltgLx¿sf v|Lli6og cfdf—afa’x¿k|lt ;dlk{t / cf1fsf/L x’gnfO{ k”0f{¿kdf l;sfOPsf] x’g’ kb{5 . olb ltgLx¿n] To;f] ub{5g eg] c? cflzifx¿ klg ltgLx¿sf] nflu k|lt1f ul/Psf] 5 M
æ5f]/f–5f]/L xf], k|e’df cfˆgf cfdf–afa’sf] cf1f kfng u/, lsgls of] plrt xf] . æcfˆgf cfdf—afa’sf] dfg u/Æ -hf] k|lt1f;lxtsf] klxnf] cf1f xf]_, æls ltdLx¿nfO{ enf] xf]; , / k[YjLdf ltdLx¿ bL3f{o’ xf]cf]Æ -Plkm;L ^M!–#_ .
cfˆgf] kl/jf/sf] lz/ ePsf]n] v|Lli6og afa’x¿nfO{ ltgLx¿sf 5f]/f—5f]/Lx¿nfO{ tflnd lbgsf] nflu k|fylds lhDd]jf/Lx¿ lbOPsf] 5 M
æclg afa’ xf], cfˆgf 5f]/f–5f]/Lx¿nfO{ l/; gp7fcf], t/ ltgLx¿nfO{ k|e’sf] cg’zf;g / lzIffdf x’sf{cf]Æ -Plkm;L ^M$_ .
afa’x¿sf] lhDd]jf/Lx¿ b’O{j6f 5g eGg] s’/fnfO{ yfxf kfO{ /fVg’xf]; M ltgLx¿sf 5f]/f–5f]/Lx¿nfO{ k|e’sf] lzIffdf / cg’zf;gdf Nofpg’ k5{ . ca xfdL 5f]/f–5f]/Lx¿nfO{ cg’zf;g ug'{ kb{5 eGg] af/]df klxn] ljrf/ u/f}F .
Child Discipline
afnssf] cg’zf;g
h’g afnsnfO{ slxn] cg’zf;gdf /flvPsf] x’Fb}g, Tof] afns :jfyL{ / clVtof/k|ltsf] afuLkgdf a[l4 x’g]5 . 5f]/f—5f]/Lx¿n] cfdf—afa’x¿n] klxn]b]lv g} :yflkt u/L lbPsf] plrt lgodx¿sf] kfngf gubf{ h’g;’s} a]nfdf klg ltgLx¿nfO{ tf8gf lbOPsf] x’g’ kb{5 . 5f]/f—5f]/Lx¿nfO{ uNtL ubf{ ;hfo lbg’ x’Fb}g jf ltgLx¿n] afnssf] lhDd]jf/LnfO{ kfng gubf{ ;hfo lbg’ x’Fb}g . k|foM u/]/ ltgLx¿n] u/]sf] uNtLsf] kl/0ffd ef]Ug ltgLx¿nfO{ lbg’ k5{, o;/L xfdLn] ltgLx¿nfO{ k|f}9 hLjgsf] jf:tljstfsf] nflu tof/ ug{ ;xfotf k’Ub5 .
hjfg 5f]/f–5f]/Lx¿nfO{ k/d]zj/sf] jrgn] eg]em}F ltgLx¿nfO{ a]t nufP/ cg’zf;gdf Nofpg’ k5{ . jf:tjdf, ;fgf afnsx¿nfO{ rFflx lk6g’ jf a]t nufpg’ x’Fb}g . o;sf] dtna of] xf]Og ls afnsx¿nfO{ ;Fw} ltgLx¿s} rfndf rNg lbg’ k5{ . jf:tjdf, hGd]s} lbgb]lv ltgLx¿n] cfdf—afa’x¿ eg]sf ltgLx¿sf] lhDd]jf/ JolStx¿ x’g eg]/ yfxf kfPsf] x’g’ kb{5 . ;fg} pd]/b]lv g} ltgLx¿n] ul//x]sf] / ug{ nfu]sf] sfdsf] af/]df æx’GgÆ eGg] zAbsf] cy{ ;fdfGo ¿kdf /f]lsg’ xf] egL l;sfOPsf] x’g’ kb{5 . æx’GgÆ eg]sf] s] xf] eg]/ ltgLx¿n] Psrf]l6 a’‰gnfO{ ;’? ul/;s]kl5 ltgLx¿df cfPsf] k|sfzn] g} ltgLx¿n] cf1fkfng gu/]sf] ;dodf eGbf a9L a’‰g ltgLx¿nfO{ dbt ug]{5 . olb of] s’/f] k|ToIf ¿kdf ul/G5 eg], 5f]/f–5f]/Lx¿n] ltgLx¿sf] ;fg} pd]/b]lv g} cf1fsf/L x’gnfO{ l;Sg]5g .
cfdf—afa’x¿n] ltgLx¿sf 5f]/f–5f]/Lx¿df ltgLx¿nfO{ dg gk/]sf afgL Jojxf/x¿nfO{ k|an gkfl/sg} cfˆgf clVotf/x¿sf] ;d]t :yfkgf ug{ ;S5g . h:t} M ltgLx¿n] /f]P/ x/]s ;dodf dfu]sf] s’/f t’/Gt} lbP/ o;f] ug'{ eg]sf] ltgLx¿n] cfˆgf 5f]/f–5f]/Lx¿nfO{ ltgLx¿n] dfu]sf] s’/f k|fKt ug{sf] nflu x/ ;do ?g’ k5{ eg]/ l;sfpg’ xf] . cyjf, olb cfdf—afa’x¿n] ltgLx¿sf 5f]/f–5f]/Lx¿sf] dfFunfO{ x/]s ;do ltgLx¿ l/;fP/ cyjf lrNnfP/ dfq} k”/f ul/lbg] u/]df, To:tf] k|sf/sf cfdf— afa’x¿n] jf:tjdf ToxL k|sf/sf] grflxFbf] afgL ug{sf] nflu xf};nf lbO/x]sf x’G5g . a’l4dfg cfdf—afa’x¿n] cfˆgf 5f]/f–5f]/Lx¿df Ogfd lbg] vfnsf] afgL–Joxf]/fsf] lasf; ub{5g .
a]t nufpg] s’/f zf/Ll/s ¿kdf rf]6k”0f{ x’g’ x’Fb}g t/ cgf1fsf/L 5f]/f–5f]/LnfO{ s]xL a]/ ?g] u/L b’Vg] vfnsf] eg] cjZo x’g’ kb{5 . o; k|sf/n] afnsn] cgf1fsf/L x’Fbf ef]Ug’ kg]{ b’vfO{ s:tf] x’Fbf]/x]5 egL l;Sg]5 . of] s’/f afOann] :ki6 ub{5 M æ58L grnfpg] afa’n] cfˆgf] 5f]/fnfO{ 3[0ff u5{, t/ To;nfO{ k|]d ug]{ afa’n] xf]lzof/L;fy To;nfO{ tf8gf lbG5====== afnssf] Åbo d”v{tfsf] aGwgn] h]lnPsf] x’G5, t/ tf8gfsf] a]tn] Tof] 6f9f efUg]5====== afnsnfO{ tf8gf lbg g/f]s t}Fn] To;nfO{ a]t nufP/ ;hfo lbO; eg] Tof] dl/hfg] 5}g . a]t nufP/ To;nfO{ ;hfo b], / To;sf] k|f0f d[To’b]lv arf=== ;’wf/sf] 58Ln] a’l4 k|bfg u5{, t/ 5f8f 5f]8]sf] 5f]/fn] cfˆgL cfdfsf] a]OHht u5{Æ -lxtf]kb]z !#M@$, @@M!%, @#M!#–!$, @(M!%_ .
ha cfdf—afa’x¿n] ltgLx¿sf lgodx¿ s]jn cfˆgf 5f]/f—5f]/Lx¿nfO{ nfUb5g ta ltgLx¿nfO{ pgLx¿n] cf1fsf/L x’gsf] nflu wDsL lbg’ x’Fb}g . olb afnsn] c6]/L eP/ cf1f pn+3g u¥of] eg], ta To;nfO{ a]t nufpg’ kb{5 . olb cfdf—afa’x¿n] ltgLx¿sf] cgf1fsf/L aRrfnfO{ a]t nufpg] wDsL dfq} lbG5g eg], ltgLx¿n] p;nfO{ lgoldt ¿kdf cgf1fsf/L x’gsf] nflu k|f]T;flxt agfpFb} u/]sf x’G5g . kl/0ffd:j¿k, cfˆgf cfdf—afa’x¿sf] wDsL k|ToIf ¿kdf k”/f gx’Gh]n;Dd cf1fsf/L x’g] ;DaGwdf afnsn] jf:tf ug{nfO{ l;Sb}g .
a]t nufO{ ;s]kl5 afnsnfO{ cFufnf] df/]/ k’gM k|]dsf] lgZrotf cleefjsn] lbPsf] x’g’ kb{5 .
Train up a Child
afnsnfO{ tflnd lbg’
xfdLn] lxtf]kb]z @@M^ df k9]emF} v|Lli6og cfdf—afa’x¿n] cfˆgf 5f]/f–5f]/Lx¿nfO{ tflnd lbg] ltgLx¿sf] lhDd]jf/L xf] eg]/ dx;’; ug}{ k5{M æafnsnfO{ p lx8Fg’ kg]{ af6f]df tflnd b]pm, / a[4fj:yf;Dd p To;af6 tls{P/ hfFb}gÆ .
cgf1fsf/Ltfsf] nflu tflnddf ;hfo dfq} ;dfj]z x’Fb}g, t/ c;n afgL Joxf]/fsf] lglDt Ogfd klg ;dfj]z x’G5 . 5f]/f–5f]/Lx¿nfO{ ltgLx¿sf cfdf—afa’x¿åf/f ltgLx¿sf c;n afgL Joxf]/f / OR5f nfUbf] vfnsf] Jojxf/sf] lglDt k|z+;f ul/Psf] x’g’ kb{5 . 5f]/f–5f]/Lx¿n] ltgLx¿sf cfdf—afa’x¿åf/f k|]d ul/Psf, u|x0f ul/Psf / k|z+;f ul/Psf 5f}F eg]/ k|foM h;f] k’gM lglZrt ePsf] x’g’ kb{5 . cfdf—afa’x¿n] ltgLx¿sf 5f]/f—5f]/Lx¿nfO{ k|z+;f u/]/ cFufnf] xfn]/ DjfO{ vfP/ ltgLx¿;Fu ;do latfPsf] a]nfdf cfˆgf] k|]d k|s6 ug{ ;S5g .
ætflndÆ lbg’ eg]sf] æcf1fkfngÆ ug]{ agfpg’ xf] . To;}sf/0f, v|Lli6og cfdf— afa’x¿n] ltgLx¿sf 5f]/f–5f]/Lx¿ x/]s lbg d08nL hfG5g ls hfFb}g, k|fy{gf u5{g ls ub}{gg eGg] s’/fsf] nflu / o:t} c? s’/fx¿sf] nflu lasNk lbg’ x’Fb}g . 5f]/f—5f]/Lx¿n] ltgLx¿sf] lglDt s’g s’/f] c;n 5 eg]/ hfGgsf] nflu k’/} lhDd]jf/L x’Fb}gg — To;}sf/0f t k/d]Zj/n] ltgLx¿nfO{ cfdf—afa’x¿ lbg’ ePsf] xf] . cfˆgf 5f]/f–5f]/Lx¿n] 7Ls;Fun] tflnd k|fKt u/]sf 5g ls 5}gg eg]/ x]g{sf] nflu cfˆgf] d’No / zlQm vr{ ug]{ cfdf—afa’x¿nfO{ xfdLn] lxtf]kb]z @@M^ df k9]sf] h:t} ltgLx¿sf 5f]/f—5f]/Lx¿n] cfˆgf] a[4j:yf;Dd 7Ls af6f]df lx8Fgaf6 tls{P/ hfFb}gg eg]/ k/d]Zj/n] k|lt1f ug'{ x’G5 .
5f]/f—5f]/Lx¿ a9b} hfFbf la:tf/}–la:tf/} ltgLx¿sf lhDd]jf/Lx¿ klg a[l4 ub}{ nluPsf] x’g’ kb{5 . cfdf—afa’x¿n] 5f]/f–5f]/Lx¿nfO{ k|efjsf/L 9+udf x’sf{pg] nIo /fVg’ rFflx ltgLx¿nfO{ cGtdf ltgLx¿sf] k|f}9j:yfsf] k”0f{ lhDd]jf/Lx¿sf] nflu tof/ ug'{ xf] . h;} afns a9b} hfG5, ta p;nfO{ la:tf/}—la:tf/} cfˆgf] lg0f{o cfkm} ug{sf] nflu :jtGqtf lbFb} klg hfg’ kb{5 . o;sf] cltl/St, lszf]/fj:yfsf] JolStn] klg cfk”mn] u/]sf] lg0f{osf] kl/0ffdsf] nflu lhDd]jf/L u|x0f ug]{5 eg]/ a’em]sf] x’g’ k5{ / p;sf] cfdf—afa’x¿ p;nfO{ ;d:ofaf6 æaflx/ Nofpgsf] nfluÆ ;Fw} ToxfF x’Fb}g eGg] s’/f klg p;n] a’em]sf] x’g’ k5{ .
Parents’ Responsibility to Instruct
lzIff lbgsf nflu cfdf—afa’x¿sf] lhDd]jf/L
ha xfdL Plkm;L ^M$ df k9b5f}+, ta afa’x¿n] ltgLx¿sf 5f]/f—5f]?x¿nfO{ cg’zf;gdf Nofpg] dfq ltgLx¿sf] lhDd]jf/L xf]Og t/ k|e’df ltgLx¿nfO{ pgLx¿n] lzIff lbpmg eGg] s’/fsf] ck]Iff klg ul/Psf] 5 eg]/ xfdL yfxf kfpFb5f}F . afOanLo g}ltstfdf, v|Lli6og rl/qdf, jf O{Zj/zf:qdf afnsnfO{ lzIff lbg] d08nLsf] lhDd]jf/L xf]Og— of] t afa’n] ug]{ sfd xf] . h’g cfdf—afa’x¿n] ltgLx¿sf 5f]/f—5f]/Lx¿nfO{ k/d]Zj/sf] af/]df afn–;+ultsf lzIfsnfO{ ;f/f lhDd]jf/L lbG5g ltgLx¿n] Psbd 7″nf] uNtL ul//x]sf x’G5g . k/d]Zj/n] df]zfåf/f O;|fPnLx¿nfO{ cf1f lbg’ eof], æd}n] cfh ltdLx¿nfO{ ;’gfPsf cf1fx¿ cfˆgf] Åbodf /fv clg tL ltdLx¿n] cfˆgf 5f]/f–5f]/Lx¿nfO{ xf]lzof/L;fy l;sfcf] / 3/df a:bf, af6f]df lxF8bf, 9Ns]/ ;’Tbf / p7bf ltgsf] rrf{ u/Æ -Joj:yf ^M^–&_ .
v|Lli6og cfdf—afa’x¿n] ltgLx¿sf 5f]/f–5f]/fx¿nfO{ k/d]Zj/ sf] x’g’ x’G5 / pxfFn] ltgLx¿nfO{ slt w]/} k|]d ug'{ x’G5 eg]/ ;fg} pd]/b]lv pxfFsf] af/]df eg]/ kl/ro lbPsf] x’g’ k5{ . hjfg 5f]/f–5f]/Lx¿nfO{ k|e’ o]z”sf] hGd, pxfFsf] hLjg, d[To’ / k’g?Tyfgsf] af/]df ePsf syfx¿ l;sfOPsf] x’g’ kb{5 . w]/} afn—aflnsfx¿n] ltgLx¿sf] kfFr jf 5 jif{sf] pd]/b]lv g} ;’–;dfrf/sf] ;Gb]znfO{ a’‰g ;S5g / ltgLx¿n] k|e’sf] ;]jf ug]{ lg0f{o ug{ ;S5g . To;kl5 rfF8} g} -5 jf ;ft jif{sf] pd]/df clg slxn]—sfFxL Tof]eGbf klg sd pd]/d}_ ltgLx¿n] cGo efiff af]n]/ kljq cfTdfsf] alKtidf u|x0f ug{ ;S5g . jf:tjdf, s’g} cK7of/f] lgodx¿ nfbg ;lsGb}g, lsgeg] x/]s afns leGg} k|sf/sf] x’G5 . d’Vo s’/f rFflx v|Lli6og cfdf—afa’x¿n] cfˆgf 5f]/f–5f]/Lx¿nfO{ cflTds tflnd lbg k[YjLsf] pRr k|fyldstf lbPsf] x’g’ kb{5 .
Ten Rules for Loving your Children
tkfO{+sf 5f]/f–5f]/Lx¿nfO{ k|]d ug{sf] nflu bzj6f lgodx¿
-!_ tkfO{+sf 5f]/f–5f]/Lx¿nfO{ /L; gp7fpg’xf]; -x]g'{xf]; Plkm;L ^M$_ . afn—aflnsfx¿n] k|f}9 h:tf] Jojxf/ u?g eGg] ck]Iff ug{ ;lsGb}g . olb tkfO{n] ltgLx¿af6 w]/} s’/fsf] ck]Iff ug'{ x’G5 eg], ltgLx¿n] tkfO{nfO{ v’zL kfg{sf] nflu c;Dej 5 eg]/ hfg] tfklg s]xL k|oTg ug]{5g .
-@_ tkfO{sf 5f]/f—5f]/Lx¿nfO{ c? afn—aflnsfx¿;Fu t’ngf gug'{xf]; . tkfO{n] ltgLx¿sf u’0fx¿ / k/d]Zj/af6 ltgLx¿n] kfPsf] j/bfgx¿sf] nflu slt w]/} k|z+;f ug'{ x’G5 eg]/ ltgLx¿n] hfg’g .
-#_ tkfO{sf] 3/sf] j/k/ ltgLx¿nfO{ lhDd]jf/Lx¿ lbg’xf]; h;n] ubf{ ltgLx¿ klg tkfO{sf] 3/ kl/jf/sf] lglDt Pp6f dxTjk”0f{ cËx¿ x’g eg]/ ltgLx¿n] yfxf kfpg] 5g . k”/f ug]{ sfdx¿ :j:Yo :jfledfgsf] lgdf{0fsf] lglDt /flvPsf OF6fx¿ x’g .
-$_ tkfO{sf 5f]/f—5f]/Lx¿;Fu ;do latfpg’xf]; . To; s’/fn] ltgLx¿ tkfO{sf] lglDt dxTjk”0f{ 5g eGg] s’/f ltgLx¿n] a’‰g] 5g . ltgLx¿nfO{ tkfO{n] lbg] ef}lts s’/fx¿n] tkfO{n] cfkm}nfO{ ltgLx¿sf] lglDt lbO{ xfNg] s’/fsf] k|ltlglwTj ub}{g . o;sf] cltl/St, h;n] afn—aflnsfx¿;Fu cfˆgf] w]/}eGbf w]/} ;do latfpF5, ToxL JolSt;Fu g} ltgLx¿ k|efljt ePsf x’G5g .
-%_ olb tkfO{n] s’g} gsf/fTds s’/f g} eGg’ k¥of] eg], To;nfO{ ;sf/fTds tl/sfn] eGgnfO{ sf]lzif ug'{xf]; . d}n] d]/f 5f]/f—5f]/Lx¿nfO{ ltgLx¿ æv/faÆ 5g eg]/ ltgLx¿n] d]/f] cf1f pn+3g u/]sf] a]nfdf slxn] klg elgg . a? To;sf] cnfjf, d}n] d]/f] 5f]/fnfO{ o;f] eGy]+, æltdL c;n s]6f], clg c;n s]6fn] ltdLn] clxn] ev{/} u/]sf] h:tf] slxn] ub}{gÆ -clg To;kl5 d p;nfO{ yKk8 xfG5’_ .
-^_ æx’GgÆ eGg] zAbsf] cy{ æd ltd|f] jf:tf u5′{Æ eg]sf] xf] eg]/ dx;’; ug'{xf]; . ha afnsx¿ ;Fw} cfˆg} af6f]df lx8Fb5g , ta ltgLx¿nfO{ tkfO{n] /f]Sgsf] nflu s’g} jf:tf ug'{ x’Gg /x]5 egL ltgLx¿n] yfxf kfpFb5g .
-&_ tkfO{sf 5f]/f—5f]/Lx¿n] tkfO{sf] cg’s/0f u/]sf x’g eg]/ ck]Iff ug'{xf]; . 5f]/f—5f]/Lx¿n] ltgLx¿sf cfdf—afa’x¿sf] pbfx/0faf6 l;Sb5g . a’l4dfg cleefjsn] cfˆgf] aRrfnfO{ slxn] klg o;f] eGb}g, æd}n] eg]sf] h:tf] u/, t/ d}n] u/] h:tf] gu/ .Æ
-*_ tkfO{sf 5f]/f—5f]/Lx¿nfO{ ltgLx¿sf ;a} ;d:ofx¿af6 g5’6fpg’xf]; . 7]; nfUg] 9’Ëfx¿ dfq} x6fO{ lbg’xf]; , clg ltgLx¿ lxF8g] af6f]df 9’Ëfx¿ rFflx /lx/xg lbg’xf]; .
-(_ tkfO{sf] ;f/f Åbon] k/d]Zj/sf] ;]jf ug'{xf]; . h’g 5f]/f—5f]/Lx¿sf cfdf—afa’x¿ cflTds ¿kdf lr;f] g tftf]sf 5g ltgLx¿sf 5f]/f–5f]/Lx¿n] w]/} sd dfqfdf ltgLx¿sf] k|f}9fj:yfsf] a]nfdf k/d]Zj/sf] ;]jf u/]sf] d}n] yfxf kfPsf] x’G5 . p4f/ gkfPsf cfdfx¿sf v|Lli6og 5f]/f—5f]/Lx¿n] ;fdfGo ¿kdf cfˆgf] u’F8af6 aflx/ /x]/ k/d]Zj/sf] ;]jf lg/Gt/ ¿kdf ub{5g .
-!)_ tkfO{sf 5f]/f—5f]/Lx¿nfO{ k/d]Zj/sf] jrg l;sfpg’xf]; . cfdf—afa’x¿n] w]/} h;f] cfˆgf 5f]/f–5f]/Lx¿nfO{ lzIff lbg] s’/fdf k|fyldstf lbg] ub{5g t/ ltgLx¿nfO{ clt g} /fd|f], afOansf] lzIff lbg] dxTjk”0f{ s’/fdf rFflx pgLx¿ r’ls/x]sf x’G5g .
The Priorities of Ministry, Marriage and Family
;]jsfOsf k|fyldstfx¿, ljjfx / kl/jf/
;fob v|Lli6og cu’jfx¿af6 x’g] u/]sf] clt g} ;fdfGo uNtL rFflx ltgLx¿sf ;]jsfOk|lt ltgLx¿ ;dlk{t ePsf]n] ubf{ cfˆgf] j}jflxs hLjg / kl/jf/nfO{ a]jf:tf ul//x]sf x’G5g . ltgLx¿n] ltgLx¿sf] alnbfg æk|e’sf] sfdsf] nfluÆ xf] eg]/ eGb} cfk”mnfO{ k|dfl0ft ub{5g .
ha r]nf agfpg] ;]jsn] k/d]Zj/k|ltsf] pgsf] ;fFrf] cf1fsf/L / elQm cfˆgf] j}jflxs hf]8L tyf 5f]/f—5f]/Lx¿;Fusf] pgsf] ;DaGwåf/f k/fjt{g ePsf] x’G5 eg]/ dx;’; ub{5g , ta of] uNtL ;’wf/df cfPsf] x’G5 . olb Pp6f ;]jsn] cfˆgL kTgLnfO{ v|Li6n] d08nLnfO{ k|]d u/]em}F k|]d ub}{g, cyjf cfˆgf gfgLx¿nfO{ k|e’sf] lzIff / r]tfjgLdf Nofpgsf] nflu cfjZos ;do ltgLx¿;Fu latfpg] s’/fdf a]jf:tf ub{5 eg] p;n] cfk”mnfO{ k/d]Zj/df ;dlk{t ePsf] 5′ eg]/ bfaL ug{ ;Sb}g .
o;sf] cltl/Qm, æ;]jsfOsf] lglDtÆ eg]/ cfˆgf] kl/jf/ / 5f]/f—5f]/Lx¿sf] a]jf:tf ug'{ eg]sf] cfˆg} ansf] zlQmdf ul/Psf] zf/Ll/s b]vfj6L ;]jsfOsf] Pp6f lglZrt ;+s]t dfq xf] . w]/} ux«f}+ / af]emo’St sfdsf] ef/L af]Sg] w]/} a}wflgs d08nLsf kfi6/x¿ g} o;sf] lglDt pbfx/0fx¿ x’g , h;/L ltgLx¿ cfkm}n] d08nLsf ;a} sfo{j|mdx¿nfO{ rnfpgsf] nflu cfkm}nfO{ Jo:t agfpFb5g .
k|e’ o]z”n] k|lt1f ug'{ ePsf] 5, ls pxfFsf] ef/L xn’sf] / h’jf ;lhnf] 5 -x]g'{xf]; dQL !!M#)_ . pxfFn] s’g} klg ;]jsfO{ ;+;f/sf] nflu jf d08nLsf] nflu cfˆgf] kl/jf/nfO{ k|]d ug{ 5f]8]/ p;sf] elQm b]vfpgsf] nflu af]nfO/xg’ ePsf] 5}g . jf:tjdf, Pp6f PN8/sf] lglDt ul/Psf] dfu eg]sf] æp;n] cfˆgf] kl/jf/sf] Joj:yf /fd|f];Fu ug{ ;Sg] x’g’ k5{Æ eGg] xf] -! ltdf]yL #M$_ . pgsf] kl/jf/;Fusf] ;DaGw g} ;]jsfo{sf] nflu pgL sltsf] of]Uo /x]5g egL hfFRg] s’/f xf] .
3’dGt] ;]jsfOsf] lglDt af]nfOPsfx¿ / cfˆgf] kl/jf/x¿af6 w]/} h;f] ;do aflx/} latfpg]x¿n] cfk”m 3/df ePsf] a]nf cfˆgf] kl/jf/;Fu s]lGb|t eP/ ;do latfpg] 5’§} ;dosf] Joj:yf ug'{ kb{5 . v|Li6sf] z/L/df cfPsf ;+uL–;b:ox¿n] To:tf] k|sf/sf] Joj:yf ;Dej eP;Dd / ltgLx¿sf] zlQmn] EofP;Dd ldnfpg’ kb{5 r]nf agfpg] ;]jsn] pgsf] cfˆg} 5f]/f—5f]/Lx¿ klxnf] r]nfx¿ x’g eg]/ dx;’; ub{5g . olb pgL To; sfddf c;kmn x’G5g eg], pgn] cfˆgf] 3/sfx¿b]lv aflx/sfx¿nfO{ r]nfx¿ agfpgsf] nflu k|oTg ug]{ pgnfO{ s’g} clwsf/ klg 5}g .
^@ clws k|df0fsf nflu k/d]Zj/ nHhfn’ x’g’x’G5, >]i7uLt &M!–( / n]jL !*M!–@# x]g'{xf]; .